People often talk about dog dads... but what about cat dads? They’re out there too. More discreet, less loud, often overlooked during the big celebrations. Yet they’re the ones stuck in an awkward position on the couch because their cat has been sleeping on their legs for 40 minutes. The ones who get up at the crack of dawn because a perfectly timed meow pulled them out of bed. The ones who don’t dare move for fear of upsetting “the boss.”
If this sounds familiar, chances are your cat has chosen you. And when a cat chooses you... it’s a big deal. So here are 7 clear signs you’ve officially become a cat dad.
1. They always sleep on your pillow
You could have a king-sized bed, it wouldn’t matter. Your cat has picked your pillow, your spot. That’s where they settle every night, without fail. Sometimes above your head, sometimes pressed up against your back. And you adjust. You sleep diagonally, develop impressive flexibility, sacrifice your comfort for their contentment. Because they’re cute… and, let’s face it, you no longer have a say.
2. They follow you to the bathroom, but stop at the door
You’re never truly alone. Even in your most private moments, they’re there. Not right next to you, just sitting in the doorway. It’s their way of showing they care. Yes, cats are independent. But once they’re attached, they always keep an eye (and an ear) on you.
3. They lie down on your keyboard, controller, or book
You sit down to work or relax? So do they. And by total coincidence, it’s exactly where you left your things that they decide to stretch out. Not to stop you from doing your thing. Just because your space has become your shared space. Soaking up your scent and cuddling up to your warmth is their way of saying, "I’m good here."
4. They show you their belly… sometimes
Ah, the belly. Soft, tempting… and a trap. When your cat rolls over onto their back in front of you, it’s not just a stretch. It’s a statement. It means: “I trust you.” But careful! That doesn’t necessarily mean you can pet it. Or maybe just for two seconds. Three tops. After that, expect consequences. Because loving a cat also means learning to read the signs.
5. They wake YOU up (never your partner)
Your partner sleeps soundly. You? You get paw taps on the face, persistent meows, or hallway zoomies worthy of Olympic medals… all at 6 a.m. They choose you to meet their urgent needs for cuddles, playtime, or kibble. And even if you grumble a bit, admit it: there’s a little pride in being their number one.
Also read : My cat meows and wakes me up at night! What can I do?
6. They bring you their toys (or random weird stuff)
A stuffed mouse, a hair tie, a slipper, or sometimes a less glamorous offering... Your cat brings you their treasures as if to share the spoils of their "hunts." To them, it’s a gesture of loyalty, almost gratitude. You’re not just a roommate. You’re part of their pack. And they want you in it.
7. They pretend to ignore you… but never leave the room
They act like they don’t care. They stretch out on the rug, stare out the window, reject your cuddles… but they never actually leave. They stay within sight. Not to get your attention, just to be there. Because at the end of the day, that’s cat love: quiet, subtle, but deeply loyal.
Conclusion
If you recognized yourself in even half (or all) of these signs… there’s no doubt: your cat has adopted you. You’re not just their official food provider and bed warmer. You’re their favourite human, their safe place, their dad.
And being a cat dad comes with its own responsibilities: opening doors that aren’t really closed, giving up your pillow without protest, responding to silent (or very loud) demands. But it also comes with a ton of tenderness, sweet moments, and little privileges that only a true cat dad can understand.
Happy Father’s Day to all those living life with a little feline who chose them.
